But then I figured out something incredible - that I could absolutely inspire that ?forever feeling? in a man. That I could be the person in the relationship deciding whether or not I was satisfied, rather than waiting for him to ?come around.?
That?s why I?m here. I don?t want you to have to go through all the pain that I went through. I?ve spent several years studying men and what brings couples to loving, committed relationships. And I?ve developed a simple plan you can follow to inspire your man to commit to you now and forever, and WANT lifelong happiness with you? more than anything else in his life.
The 4 Big Mistakes That Get In The Way Of The Commitment You Want
Mistake #1: Focusing On Events, Not Feelings
We women are taught to believe that events, and the time we ?put in,? MEAN SOMETHING to a man. If he?s introduced us to his family or friends at work we?re on cloud nine. We think of these as ?milestones? moving us closer to commitment and marriage. And we couldn?t be more wrong.
Time means NOTHING to a man. Sometimes, being in a comfortable HOLDING PATTERN with us is EXACTLY what he has in mind! They spend time with us, but then they go and commit to someone else.
Unless we can get into our man?s heart, and let him into ours to create a deep emotional bond, we DOOM ourselves to a superficial level that will never lead to a lifelong commitment.
Mistake #2: Thinking Exclusive = Committed
?women focus on getting a man to be exclusive - but this is only a temporary state. Instead, you need to focus on getting him committed?
How many of you have been comfortable in a relationship, only to have the man you are with meet someone else, or tell you he?s ?found someone who really gets me.? How can it be that a man who is exclusive with you can ?fall for? someone else so easily? It?s because he was not committed to you.
Oftentimes, women focus on getting a man to be exclusive - but this is only a temporary state. Instead, you need to focus on getting him committed to you. When that happens, he?ll be exclusive AND won?t ?fall for? another woman ever again!
Mistake #3: Talking About Your Relationship, Not Creating It
Often when women feel their man becoming distant, they decide to TALK to him about it. To ask how he?s feeling, why he?s acting this way, or where the relationship is going.
When you talk to a man about your relationship, you have the OPPOSITE effect on him than you intend. Though we often hear men say how much they hate how ?emotional? women are - this is exactly the part they CRAVE. They are so stuck in their brains, so much of the time, that if we?re stuck in ours, they can?t connect to us.
Every time we TALK about the relationship, it feels to him like a laundry list of to do items instead of INSPIRING a man to want to be with us.
Mistake #4: You Panic? He Leaves
Because we know that ?Lifelong-Commitment? is a frightening thing to a man, we?re often afraid to say or do anything that might scare him more.
It?s easy to get paralyzed by fear and anger and stop being ourselves. We stop being the fun, relaxed women who he originally fell for who made him happy. This takes us further AWAY from the commitment we want.
A Surprisingly Simple Way To Trigger His Life-Long Commitment
I can teach you how to make sure his desire to HAVE YOU is GREATER than his fear of commitment. And this desire will continue if you can create an ongoing experience for him that makes him FEEL that committing to you is worth trading in his ?freedom.?
In my relationship, I focused on getting my sense of POWER back, instead of trying to get HIM. I remembered everything I did in the very beginning of our relationship, when he couldn?t get enough of me and was totally chasing me. Instead of working so hard at the relationship, I worked hard on myself and on the rest of my life. I told myself that I?d be all right no matter what, and that if I stuck to my own plan, I?d have the relationship I wanted, even if it wasn?t with him.
And that?s when things REALLY started to MOVE. The ?energy? between us changed completely. In my mind I became a prize he needed to pursue in order to ?win,? rather than something he was already guaranteed to have for the rest of his life. And almost instantly - he started FEELING that same way.
I focused on making myself happy instead of trying to make HIM happy. I spoke to him like he was a ROOMATE I was sleeping with, instead of like a potential husband. And then, everything changed. Quickly.
I?d somehow hit on something that worked, and I didn?t even know what that was! Here I was, more attractive to him TIRED and UNCARING than I ever was trying to make him happy. Less than two weeks later, on my birthday, he proposed to me. It was very official - he?d brought a calendar to the restaurant so we could plan a date for the wedding!
My Commitment Blueprint Program Will Teach You How To Inspire Your Man To Commit To You Forever
I?m about to share a huge secret with you.
Commitment is an EMOTIONAL process. And the good news is that it?s a process you can easily trigger if you understand the different steps a man takes in order to feel ?ready? and fully engage in lifelong commitment with you.
I?ve broken down this process into 7 easy steps to help you move from uncertain and uncommitted to committed, secure and completely SATISFIED by your relationship.
Try COMMITMENT BLUEPRINT Now
You?ll Learn How To:
Inspire A Man To Value You Over His Freedom
Learn The Steps A Man Takes To Feel ?Ready?
Change Your Vibe So That HE Is The Pursuer
9+ hours of powerful video: tools, techniques and exercises
Source: http://www.heroturko.me/tutorials/3076403-commitment-blueprint-completed.html
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